BY: Ellie Grabowski, Senior at The Bryn Mawr School
"I am an ambitious feminist." Senator
Kirsten Gillibrand’s words rang out in the auditorium. A split second later,
the room filled with cheers and applause. Her words had electrified the
audience of teenage girls, and I was caught up in the tide of confidence,
inspiration, and awe. For a brief moment, despite all I knew about this unbelievably
unjust world in which we live, I was invincible, sitting on the crest of this
wave of idealism and determination.
I
attend The Bryn Mawr School in Baltimore, Maryland, an all-girls college preparatory school known for its philosophy of women's empowerment. This past November, Senator Kirsten Gillibrand of New York visited
and gave a talk followed by a question-and-answer session. She discussed how
she entered politics, the struggles she faced and overcame along the way, and
her views on issues like sexual assault in the military and paid maternity
leave. She was confident. She was intelligent. She was immensely inspiring to
the hundreds of teenage girls in her audience. But what struck me the most
about her visit was her bold, unapologetic, determined declaration: “I am an
ambitious feminist." Me too.
There
aren’t many self-declared feminists in American culture, let alone American
politics. 2014 saw a relative deluge of feminism in mainstream pop culture — ask
anyone, and they’ll name Beyoncé, Taylor Swift, Emma Watson, and Lena Dunham — but that doesn’t mean that mainstream pop culture is suddenly feminist.
This, after all, is the culture that allowed domestic abuser Ray Rice to be reinstated to the NFL, the culture that tells high school girls that their bodies are distracting to their male classmates, and the culture that was
documented by the ten hours’ worth of street harassment a woman recorded while
simply walking down the streets of New York City. This is the culture that resulted
in Time picking “feminist” as an option for its poll of words of 2014 to ban on November 12th this
year. This is the culture in which that option received the most votes.
And yet, time and time again, I’ve seen and heard people protesting that feminism is unnecessary. I’ve heard people decry the way it’s supposedly been shoved in their faces. I’ve heard people insist that women’s issues really aren’t as big a deal as they’re made out to be, and that those who pick up the label “feminist” only do so because it’s trendy. On the contrary, the very fact that those who call themselves feminists are accused of being shallow is proof that feminism is necessary. How can feminism be only a fashion statement if it is obvious that those who embrace it are relentlessly criticized? One need only look at the shocking amount of hatred and harassment thrown at Emma Watson after her (relatively mild) speech at the UN to see that we need feminism now more than ever.
And yet, time and time again, I’ve seen and heard people protesting that feminism is unnecessary. I’ve heard people decry the way it’s supposedly been shoved in their faces. I’ve heard people insist that women’s issues really aren’t as big a deal as they’re made out to be, and that those who pick up the label “feminist” only do so because it’s trendy. On the contrary, the very fact that those who call themselves feminists are accused of being shallow is proof that feminism is necessary. How can feminism be only a fashion statement if it is obvious that those who embrace it are relentlessly criticized? One need only look at the shocking amount of hatred and harassment thrown at Emma Watson after her (relatively mild) speech at the UN to see that we need feminism now more than ever.
There
are even fewer feminist politicians today than there are pop stars. Hillary
Clinton is one; Senator Gillibrand, clearly, is another; and some people might
be able to name Wendy Davis, but it’s hard to think of any more off the top of
your head. This persistent absence of women who represent feminism and the
realities of women’s lives from the political sphere is the reason why my
classmates and I were so inspired by Senator Gillibrand when she visited our
school. She is someone rare and necessary. We need more politicians and people
like her, people who are not afraid of the word “feminist.”
For
me, it wasn’t hard to call myself either ambitious or feminist. It seemed
obvious to me. I have big dreams, so I am ambitious; I believe in equal rights
and opportunities for women, so I am a feminist. Senator Gillibrand, it is clear
to me, feels the same way. As a politician, by definition, she works with
people with whom she does not see eye-to-eye, but she has not let anyone else’s
refusal to accept her opinions prevent her from working together with those
people to come up with real solutions to real problems.
According to the National Women’s Political Caucus, women currently make up less than 20% of Congress and less than 25% of state legislators. There are two women in President Obama’s Cabinet and three
women on the U.S. Supreme Court. And yet, according to the United States Census Bureau, women make up 50.8% of America as of 2013. These numbers do not match.
They do not make any sense.
We
need women in politics. That much is blatantly obvious, but it’s not where it
ends. We need, more than anything, ambitious, feminist women in politics. We
need them now. We cannot solve any problem, be it sexual assault or global
warming, paid maternity leave or world hunger, if women are not represented in
the government that makes decisions about our lives. We cannot solve any
problem if half of the country cannot contribute to the solution.
I am
a teenager; I am a young woman; I am a student. I have a voice in this world,
and I am determined to use it. The sense of invincibility that I felt during
Senator Gillibrand’s visit in November does not have to fade away; the crest of
that wave is not necessarily fated to come crashing down back to reality. We
have the power to use our momentum to keep pushing higher and higher.
I am not an aspiring politician, but Senator Gillibrand’s visit inspired me, as it did many of my classmates, to take a stand once again for issues that are important to me. I am an ambitious feminist. You can be, too.
I am not an aspiring politician, but Senator Gillibrand’s visit inspired me, as it did many of my classmates, to take a stand once again for issues that are important to me. I am an ambitious feminist. You can be, too.